It is well known fact that Indian society is well knitted closed society which has its own way of doing things, even a so personal relationship called marriage is performed in highly social way.
For my friends who are unaware of Indian culture, Before getting married in
They go through a series of complicated selection criteria of cast, horoscope matching guna matching and what not.
Everybody who is involved considers his opinion of utmost importance like a birth right and doesn’t mind giving it unasked.
The groom has limited role in giving a Boolean answer of either yes or no. Those who take a lot of interest and analyze things openly are considered as too eager to marry and laughed at back by others :) .
In all this hassle of opinions arguments and everything people forget to consider a very humanly point.
They really don’t understand the amount of grilling done on girl playing bride. Since the time her photographs in different poses are broadcast by her own parents.She prepares herself for first OFFICIAL meeting (some times for days) rehearses the answers taught by mother and tolerate the pinching eyes of everyone who visits along with groom.
I think being a social animal we all owe sincere apologies to those girls (By the way they are our sisters and daughters if we see them after removing a bargainers glasses)
Nice thinking,and i feel almost the same about them!poor we!!the girls! though i m proud 2 be one after all the implications!
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